I just watched “The Red Pill”

I just watched “The Red Pill”

I just hit the close button on my video player after watching the red pill and I am sitting in stunned silence as I write this piece.  There is such a mixed bag of emotions running through me right now.  This documentary was so comprehensive yet there was still so much more to say that even two and a half hours of laser focused content could never cover it all.


There is at least a hint of relief that our voices are finally uniting as men to be heard and yet, we are still silenced.  I am angry at the completely misandrist commentary I heard out of people carrying a flag under the guise of equality saying that there is “no way we can be taken seriously”.  Yet here we are, growing in number every day with men and women by the thousands waking up and taking a red pill, seeing the rabbit hole of this war of the sexes and that there is in fact more than a single narrative to take into consideration.


I am humbled at my now more enlightened view of the issues I have studied over these past two years and astounded by the sheer convolution of our court systems involving fathers’ rights, the rights of battered men and the lack of resources they are presented with and the trained ignorance of our society to the suffering of men and boys.  I am infuriated at the “acceptable casualties“ that are the disposable males in our culture and not just in the west but around the globe, the idea that men are just there to produce and die.


But what I can’t grasp the most is this.  How can feminist who claim to be about equality for us all try to oppress and silence us at every turn?  How is this compassion?  Why are my concerns as a fellow human of this planet not important especially when it involves very serious issues like my health, my well-being, my right to not be beaten, my right to not be mutilated, or my children?  When men’s rights actuvust just want to talk why do they show up with loudspeakers, call us names, spit on us and strike at us all in the name of equality and peace?


These are my true and raw reactions to seeing the red pill.  I hope you watch it too.


The Mentalist






The Man’o’sphere as best I can describe it.

The Man’o’sphere as best I can describe it.

To adequately describe the differences in these movements I will first define each on and give an example of its purpose.

Let’s start with the MRA.  The MRA or “Men’s Rights Movement” focuses on reparation of injustices committed upon men and boys as well as the eventual reparation of the schism between men and women in this “war of the sexes”.
Examples of what they do would be fighting for the right of boys to not suffer genital mutilation upon birth and fighting for the rights of fathers in family court settings to name a couple as well as spreading general awareness of men’s issues as a whole.

Next let’s look at the MGTOW which I personally float between the MGTOW and MRA circles.

MGTOW does not focus on any activism whatsoever except maybe simply making men aware of “female nature” and opening eyes to “the red pill” which I will define further in a moment.  Ultimately, MGTOW want to let society implode on itself and help it along by taking the red pill and using the knowledge of that truth to turn societal systems that use men for resources in on itself by not feeding the machine that uses them.
MGTOW stands for “Men Going Their Own Way” meaning that they are going their way independent of female influence in their lives.  You have several “levels” of MGTOW ranging from just being aware of the existence of female nature to be covered in defining “the red pill” all the way to being a hermit that lives off the grid and away from society.  You will see a lot of emphasis on resource acquisition and hoarding in this movement as it tends to have heavy focus on financial security as well as emphasis on physical health.

Examples of MGTOW would be men whom refuse to date because they feel it is a losing financial investment based on cost/benefit analysis.  They typically tend to cite divorce rates and the cost of divorce as a whole for men (lawyers/court/alimony/child support) equaling up to a bad investment of time, energy and resources based on studies done about dating culture and statistics from the justice department about how the state is used by a gynocentric society to extract resources from men and place them in the hands of women.


Next you have the “PUA” or “Pick up Artist” movement which I deal less with though I used to be one in my own right.  These men tend to research the psychology of dating and learn how to self-improve to make themselves more desirable to women.  All this is to master the art of seduction and improve on their own physical and mental well-being.  Examples of these men would be any men who follow seduction coaching to further their “game” with women.  They typically shun long term relationships of any kind.
There is also another movement called the “TFL” or “True Forced Loneliness” movement but all I know on them is that they seem to believe that because of the overly high dating standards that women have most men are considered out of the dating pool for men.  Though this is backed up with dating studies done with major dating sites such as OKCupid.com.  I won’t speak on them more than that however because my knowledge there is limited.
Now, A couple of other terms to be familiar with is of course “The Red Pill”, “The Blue Pill” and the “Man’o’sphere”.


“The Red Pill” is simply an awakening to an uncomfortable truth that the society we live in is not what it seems.  Under the surface, Gynocentrisim (a society built to the benefit of women) is actually a truth that exist.  This is evident in family courts as mentioned earlier but also in the preferential treatment of women in the concepts of culture though many means.
Take the concept of “chivalry” in its modern connotation for example.  “Chivalry” is meant in current form as a means by which men sacrifice for women.  This could be their time, knowledge or their resources.  It could also be some combination of all these things.  In example, paying for her dinner instead of going Dutch.  This is an extraction of resources that is very common place under the flag of “being the gentleman or chivalrous behavior”.

There is a common belief that both MRA and MGTOW share regarding this and that belief states that it is female nature as a result of social conditioning to extract resources from men.  I could spend a lot of time expounding on this alone but let’s move forward.

“The Blue Pill” is much simpler it is just being unaware, or blind with no interest of learning about “The Red Pill”.


It might be of interest to note there is also a term called “The Purple Pill” that refers to people whom are aware of “the red pill” but purposefully reject it or try to maintain faith in current society after seeing “the truth”.
The “Man’o’sphere” is also relatively easy to define.  It is just the all-encompassing entity that is these different pro male movements.  Each movement exist inside the “Man’o’sphere’”.
I hope that even though this was a bit long it helps define things more clearly.
The Mentalist




A Day Without Women

A Day Without Women

A day without women had about as much consequence in America as me choosing whether I wanted lemon with my tea or not.  This was quite possibly the worst idea to date besides maybe the Ghostbusters remake that ever there was in modern feminism.  I mean, you complain about your pay and then skip work.  Genius…

GB tanks

Now, many people may think I don’t understand or care about what this is all about.  However, from what I can gather this was a strike formulated to copy countries that had done it before with the expectation it would work the same way here.  That was a very ill-conceived thought from the most privileged sex in the western world.



You see, men for as long as anyone can remember in the western world have been the ones to take the dangerous and non-glamourous jobs in western society.  All to keep women from needing or having to.  They take the garbage to landfills, bring power to the people at danger of electrocution and death, hang from cranes and buildings as they are being built and work with the heavy machinery that could potentially crush them to death at a misstep.  Women universally have no desire for these kinds of key infrastructure jobs. (for the most part) Yet… they thought taking a day off would bring us to a halt.

jobs women choose (businessinsider)

I did an article a while back that proved modern day women were choosing “pink collar jobs” over these types of hard labor and infrastructure ones on multiple levels across multiple countries.  It was even complete with graphs and empirical facts.  You know, sciencey stuff on how they do studies and prove things.  One major glaring conclusion you could come to is that women have the freedom to make the same choices as men and have for over 20 years (I’m knocking off 30 years for the societal adjustment period) now but keep choosing the same jobs for two major reasons:

  • They prefer them because they don’t have to deal with the rigors and stresses of these types of jobs.


  • Women still feel they must take these jobs in society largely because of what is defined as “feminine” and guess what, it’s not “patriarchy” doing that one ladies. You are.  In other words, “misandry hurts women too.”


Now I know that last one stung a bit but it’s going to be ok.  What I am getting at with that is that until you women change the script in society for yourselves as women in what is “feminine” both in society and the workplace and get on the same page and start taking out the garbage, get into trade jobs and take the same dangerous risks as men to earn your living no one is going to take you serious least of all men because they look at actions more than words.


I will say this to the credit of a lot of ladies.  I have seen a great increase of women taking combat roles in the military and these women have one hundred percent of my respect.  Thank you to every one of these men and women serving side by side for my freedoms and safety.

women in combat

Ladies, If you want respect from men as equals this is how you will get it.  Especially if you want it from the MRA/MGTOW communities.  Stop being part of the problem and start being an example of the solution.


Thanks for reading.

The Mentalist








Fan Request: Response to old article by Lauren Martin of Elite Daily

Fan Request: Response to old article by Lauren Martin of Elite Daily

I figured the best response was using her exact words against her by flipping the tables so it could be seen how it sounds from the other side of the table.  with that said I an citing the resource for comparison and resource material.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/men-pssies-women-need-start-asking-men-dates/746965/ by Lauren Martin 9/9/2014

Men, it’s been said before, but I’ll say it again: They just don’t make ’em like they used to.

There’s no dishwashing, no anytime sex and definitely no free drinks given to you instead of the other way around. There’s no taking off pants or courting through female invitation. There are no smooth moves, no dresses to dinner. There are no blowjobs, no tables with home cooked meals. But, most importantly, there are no dates.

If you’re a single man, you probably envisioned your twenties as a roaring social scene full of fun women and lavish gifts from ladies. You probably thought you’d have a girlfriend, or at least a few dates a week.

You probably thought you’d meet a girl at a bar and that she’d give you her number. You probably thought you’d be on your way to dinner next week.

After too many nights spent in bars and one too many phone numbers taken, you’ve probably realized the sad truth of the situation. You’re not going on any dates or being courted in any type of manner because, unfortunately, women these days are cowards.

Well — to be fair here — not all women, but a lot of them.

They’ll make eye contact with you in the bar, but never come over. They’ll get your number, but never call. They’ll offer to take your drink, but never pay.

They’ll say a guy is hot, but never hit on him. They’ll text you for a week, but never commit to go out. They’ll do absolutely everything but make a move.

I’ve watched women pine over men, talking about them like future husbands, yet after staring at them for two hours, let them walk away.

I’ve watched men chase women down for their phone numbers, yet text them and get no answer, acting like it’s something they simply forgot about. I’ve watched women spend an entire night talking to a man, yet never get up the nerve to give him her number.

We’re dealing with a new breed of women here and it’s not the kind we grew up dreaming about. It’s the want-what-I-want-but-don’t-know-how-to-get-it type; it’s the deceptive and bitchy type who grow up terrified of making the first move; it’s the ladies who have so much to say but don’t know how to say it.

Now, the unfortunate paradox for a man is that he must be the chased and the chaser. He must be the target and the shooter. He must play coy and simultaneously pursue her.

Anyone notice the problem here? Yet again, men are left to do all the work. We’re left playing both sides of the game because they’ve simply forgotten how to play.

It stems from a number of factors, but most prominently from the fact that women don’t know what the hell they want from us. They want the sensitive man and the bad boy. They want the man whore and the committed male. They want the man who’s hard to get, but they don’t know how to get him.

Because they don’t know what they want, they end up chasing nothing. It’s the dilemma of the overcrowded buffet. There are too many options so they choose an empty plate… or something they don’t even like to begin with.

This leaves men making all the moves. We must tell them what they want if we’re to get anywhere close to the goals we had for ourselves. But it will never be as we fully imagined because, in our dreams, women weren’t timid or scared little girls; in our dreams, women are equals and also ask us out.

They’re scared of you

They’ll never admit it, but you scare the hell out of them. After years of social conditioning, we’ve been duped into thinking that women are strong; that they can also be leaders, and fighters alongside men; that they are capable of seeing what they want and go after it.

Well, TV and feminism lied to you. Women aren’t these feminine displays of strength and perseverance. They aren’t these persistent characters created by Joss Whedon and Michelle Obama. They aren’t going to catch your eye and spend all night convincing you why you should be with them. They aren’t Audrey Hepburn’s. They aren’t Sigourney Weaver’s.

Women are shy, timid and scared shitless of any man with half a brain.

It’s said that the female ego is as fragile as a man’s heart and unfortunately for men, women won’t take the chance of letting it shatter. While men willingly put themselves out there, women stand back, scared of the tiniest bruise on their overinflated self-image. So yet again, men must be the strong ones. We must put ourselves out there and risk rejection. Because if we don’t do it, bars will soon be exactly like those middle school dances: boys on one side, girls on the other.

They got it from their mamas

Why are women like this? Well, for years they’ve been raised by their mamas, the women who told them they were the best thing God created on this earth. For years, they’ve been given everything on a silver platter — up until the end of college when they were picking up men who just threw up their jungle juice.

Of course, some mothers have raised great women. This isn’t to discredit the generation of mothers before us who raised the myriad of young women we’re dealing with today. But for the select few who didn’t teach them how to properly court a man, well, shame on you.

Shame on you for not teaching them how to properly approach a man. Shame on you for giving them the idea that men must always go to them. Shame on you for making them believe all they had to do was stand at a bar and wait for a man to appear on their arm.

They think there’s always someone better

In the society in which we live today, with Brad Pitt and Jhonny Depp’s Instagrams readily accessible, men have got a lot to compete with. Fortunately, we’re competing with men these women will never have a shot with. Unfortunately, these women don’t seem to know this.

We can dream about Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston all we want, but at least men are rational enough to understand that’s just not gonna happen. So we settle for the options we’ve been given and learn to work with what we have.

Women, on the other hand, always seem to be waiting for something better. In the age of Facebook and Instagram, there’s this constant filtered delusion that a hotter man sits just an inbox away.

Women also know that if they don’t get up the nerve to ask you out, all they have to do is swipe right on Tinder to skip the date and get right to the good stuff.

They never grew up

In a sad, but not all that surprising, realization that as men mature they become more desirable by society as women’s sexual marketplace value decreases.  Didn’t we already know this?

To add insult to the few dates you have yet to go on, women are also getting married less than ever before. According to a study by Pew Research Center, only 26 percent of Generation-Y is married. Compared to the 48 percent of our parents at this age, there’s no denying that women just don’t have their shit together.

We’re dating less and thus, marrying less. And the downfall picks up speed with every failed attempt to go out with a man.

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Reflection on Politics 2016

Reflection on Politics 2016

Today I enter a subject that for the majority of the time I avoid and stay silent about because there usually just isn’t I good way to go about breaching it.  Politics, That’s right I said I will finally throw my hat into the arena of the election, Trump, Hillary, and a few other things but only up to a certain point and likely I am going to piss off people both in the MRA and MGTOW circles as well as continuing to piss off people in the Feminist circles.  Frankly, I am fine with both as I have never created my content to please others but more to air material that hopefully makes people think.


First lets get this out of the way.  I hated both valid candidates.  I did not stutter, I don’t support either of them and I don’t back Trump even now.  I honestly think if the DNC could have gotten their shit together and our political system wasn’t crippled by the status quo Bernie would be sitting on the Iron Throne.  My little joke about being POTUS but let’s face it.  The president is the most powerful person in the world.

However, the system has spoken and Trump is here.  He is making shit choices for his cabinet already as our newest part time president but whatever.  I do see why the MRA and MGTOW community backed him for many reasons.  Now one is just pure red pill rage at not letting a woman wear the crown and that’s all fine and good, individual reasons are what they are and we all have emotions that we deal with that play into our decision making.  It’s part of being human.  I do it, you do it, we all do.

However, there are other reasons that this happened as well aside from this being a blow back from the silent majority against a society that is starting to become a pile of politically correct goop that seems to somehow get a gold medal in the oppression Olympics and has made a career option out of victimhood.


I read an article today in Huffington Post by Claire Landbaum that makes a roundabout mention to the MRA community going alt-right but she never quite seems to have a real grasp on the movement and why that happened.  It wasn’t just about Trump being a man and his statements about Women having it better or about him stomping on political correctness even though he did.  Here is why he won over this movement.  It’s pretty simple.  The things he said resonated and created identity with a lot of MRA and MGTOW men.  That’s it.  Feminist pushed too hard and went too far and the bomb they built blew up in their faces.

For this reason tens of thousands of votes if not far more from this community alone went to Trump and unlike other groups they didn’t block roads, create riots or disrupt the civil peace.  They spread ideology that other men identified with while using the hate fueled political out lash of third wave as an example to prove their arguments for them such as the constant cancelling of the Red Pill movie because feminist are afraid of someone hearing a point of view that isn’t theirs.   They fought their battle with ballots and won.  Now might be the time to consider coming to the table and opening an open-minded discussion with these gentlemen because this was an example of how things are going and what tactics are not going to win the fight.  In fact, this was a huge blow to third wavers and if they are smart, it’s a wake up call as well.

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Rape: 1 in 4? I Think Not

Let’s go ahead and have that uncomfortable conversation I am so tired of hearing about.  Rape… I hear so many feminist spouting off this 1 in 4 statistic and the answer is still no, it’s not 1 in 4 in America and it never was no matter what your under-informed WWGS professor tried to convince you of.


So where does this statistic showing 25% come from.  I shit you not…. A telephone survey conducted in 2012.  Fun fact, even when the study was reviewed by unbiased parties they found a lot of confirmation bias in this study which basically means that the results were skewed to favor in the direction that rape was more prevalent than it actually was.  Once confronted with this evidence the women that conducted the study conceded that the real numbers were actually more along the lines of 5%.


While we are here will we be addressing the 300,000 reports per year of male on male rape in prison?  No?  of course we won’t because then we would have real facts and numbers to show that it’s actually males getting raped more than women with actual facts and numbers and that just won’t do because “male privilege” and “patriarchy”.

Another set of words on the subject I am tired of hearing is “rape culture”.  Let’s logically pick this apart starting with the definition of culture.


culture – the arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively.



What the hell does rape and culture even have in common enough to belong next to each other?  There is nothing intellectual or artistic in rape!  The title itself is inane and you must have a mental block to think this is a thing!  Even if I took it at face value that also means I must lock my car and my house because I live in a “theft culture.”


You don’t want to believe me, fine.  But at least do yourself the justice of not being a placated sheep and go do some research yourself from reputable sources.  I’ll get you started.  Here is a great one.


Also, just to piss off a few other SJW’s I ate steak while writing this.  It was great.

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The Male Feminist

The Male Feminist

I was asked to do a donation piece on male feminism.  Thank you to the person who donated.  Here are my thoughts on this.  Male feminist have only a few possible mindsets when it comes to supporting feminism in today’s third wave trend.


One is the mindset of what many MGTOW call the “pussy beggar” which is also regarded as the biggest “simp” there is.  It is a popular opinion that many of them only support this cause because it will allow them access to their female overlords easier and they cower at the power of the almighty vagina.  MGTOW men laugh at these individuals because they have stripped the sexual marketplace value away from women by opting out of this mindset.

real pro.jpg

Another opinion is that these men are brainwashed by a female superiority culture in which all things are the fault of the “patriarchy.” Television, social media and many other sources of influence seem to feed into this belief even though there is plenty of evidence to show gender injustices on both sides of the fence and men suffer just as many if not more than women.  The most basic interpretation is that these men are ignorant to the plight of their own gender.


The last one I want to cover is known as the “white knight” or the “beta male protector” by many MGTOW.  These are men that fully believe they are doing the noble thing by supporting feminism.  These men can’t be blamed to harshly for their behavior and beliefs because men have been wired for centuries to follow this course.  They were likely taught even as many MGTOW were that women were to be cherished, protected and cared for by men.  They still love women and will fight for them, some even to the death.


These are you general types of male feminist.  To those men I have a statement on behalf of MGTOW.  We get it.  We were all just like you at one time.  All of us.  We all just decided we were tired of getting kicked in the balls by feminism and the double standards that are imposed on us by women and society.  One day, until there is change you will all come to this conclusion also.  It may take your entire lives but I bet if you sit down and have a moment of real self-reflection on your own experiences and the society we live in you will come to our way of thinking and realize why we have chosen this path.  When you do, know that us MGTOW men will welcome you into our ranks with acceptance and kindness because every one of us has been down the same road to the place we are now.  We are all men, We are all MGTOW.


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